For those who are unaware, one of our moderators (Chase) has been making some demeaning and rude comments on posts by other members. He has also went so far in his altercations with others as to ban them.
I apologize for his actions. He has a cyclical history of getting into verbal altercations, asking to be removed, struggling with his sexuality and particularly this fetish. Previously, I had asked him to take some time away, as he is a big contributor to the site. But, unfortunately, the time has come for him to on his own. I feel sorry for him and pray he gets the emotional/psychological help he needs so desperately.
I have revoked his moderator privileges and have permanently banned him from the forum. Again I apologize for his actions. And thank everyone of you who have helped bring this issue to my attention.
I have reversed the ban on Malcolm and ColdSteel. If there are any other bans that I am unaware of, please let me know.
Oh, and Predator, I tried to reply to your messages directly, but your messenger doesn't receive messages.
And As Always, Happy Battlings and a Glorious Death to You All!!!!
09-10-2022, 09:43 PM (This post was last modified: 09-10-2022, 11:17 PM by Deadpool.)
Despite what Chase did to him Predator tried to help Chase by getting him to agree to have his moderator privileges revoked so why the ban? It was also Predator who got Chase to restore Malcolm’s profile so Chase had already done that. A lot of us got to see the whole thing develop.
(09-10-2022, 09:43 PM)Deadpool Wrote: Despite what Chase did to him Predator tried to help Chase by getting him to agree to have his moderator privileges revoked so why the ban? It was also Predator who got Chase to restore Malcolm’s profile so Chase had already done that. A lot of us got to see the whole thing develop.
Believe me, it was not an easy decision. I wished to only remove his moderator privileges. I didn't mind having to restore the members from their bans. (Chase could only, as moderator, restore the account. Unfortunately, when banned, their IP address is also banned and that could only be restored by an administrator.)
I still view Chase as a friend and reached out to see how I could help him with his issues. Unfortunately, He sent me a second message requesting to be banned.
Chase sent me a message stating (in part)
Is there a way to leave a primary group? I want to leave this forum/group. It seems as if I cannot?
Can you ban me if there's no other way? I don't want to be lured by this fetish any longer and I don't want to frequent his forum and other sites like it. I found no way to get out?
He had requested this before, but I talked him out of it due to him being a big contributor to the forum.
It was not my wish to ban him, but I felt it was best for both the forum and for him personally to deal with his demons. I am working on restoring his posts so his contributions can still be accessed.
If any of you have his personal email, I would encourage you to reach out to him.
And As Always, Happy Battlings and a Glorious Death to You All!!!!
09-12-2022, 12:55 PM (This post was last modified: 09-12-2022, 12:56 PM by timgotshot.)
It must have been a hard choice but you did the right thing. Chase has always struggled, sometimes so intensely or bizarrely it affected the whole forum. He may well be happier for taking a long break.
I think it would be fine for him to come back as a member if he ever feels ready, but not as a moderator.
09-13-2022, 01:15 PM (This post was last modified: 09-15-2022, 09:18 AM by cv654.)
This was the right thing to do. Chase has often let his frustration about this fetish out on the members in here, and that is in no way acceptable.
He has a long history of being vicious, demanding and acting like a spoiled child, when the content wasn't up to his particular taste.
Chase will never be happy unless he learns to accept, that this is how he is born and he has no way of changing it - and until that day comes, he will continue being miserable and taking it out on others.
At some point there has to be an end. We have been tossed so much around with sites being banned, shut down, mistreated or neglected. We've seen videos removed from popular platforms and people having to use pornsites to distribute from - and this has scattered people all around, causing some of the big contributors with great content to leave the community or stop making more.
So pardon me for saying, that we do NOT need someone like Chase spreading negative energy on and on again because he has personal issues.
(09-13-2022, 01:15 PM)cv654 Wrote: This was the right thing to do. Chase has often let his frustration about this fetish out on the members in here, and that is in no way acceptable.
He has a long history of being vicious, demanding and acting like a spoiled child, when the content wasn't up to his particular taste.
Chase will never be happy unless he learns to accept, that this is how he is born and he has no way of changing it - and until that day comes, he will continue being miserable and taking it out on others.
At some point there has to be an end. We have been tossed so much around with sites being banned, shut down, mistreated or neglected. We've seen videos removed from popular platforms and people having to use pornsites to distribute from - and this has scattered people a½ll around, causing some of the big contributors with great content to leave the community or stop making more.
So pardon me for saying, that we do NOT need someone like Chase spreading negative energy on and on again because he has personal issues.
Just here to agree with ALL OF THIS ^ Well put, cv654.
At some point, enough has to be enough and I'm only sorry it took this long because he was the main reason I stopped interacting here. You shouldn't get a pass to spew your vitriol because you may be dealing with some emotional/mental issues. I'm glad this step was taken but only sorry for anyone that was on the receiving end of his messes that led here.
05-22-2024, 05:48 PM (This post was last modified: 05-22-2024, 05:53 PM by YinYang.)
Below is a very recent example of what Chase is regularly doing here. As in this case he frequently ends up deleting it maybe because, as can be seen, he has gone too far in deluding board members.
Strangely, Chase has been allowed to continue to use his, one of multiple profiles, ‘Bestdeaths fan’ which had been used to abuse a number of members with impunity
I accept that Chase, despite being banned, needs an outlet for our fetish. Maybe he should be allowed to return on condition he relinquishes all other profiles and never again abuses members. At least then we know who he is and what profile he’s using.
As for myself, Chase’s post ban abuse had driven me to use other profiles but I’ve now given up
05-22-2024, 06:06 PM (This post was last modified: 05-22-2024, 06:21 PM by XMalcolmX.)
(05-22-2024, 05:48 PM)YinYang Wrote: Below is a very recent example of what Chase is regularly doing here. As in this case he frequently ends up deleting it maybe because, as can be seen, he has gone too far in deluding board members.
Strangely, Chase has been allowed to continue to use his, one of multiple profiles, ‘Bestdeaths fan’ which had been used to abuse a number of members with impunity
I accept that Chase, despite being banned, needs an outlet for our fetish. Maybe he should be allowed to return on condition he relinquishes all other profiles and never again abuses members. At least then we know who he is and what profile he’s using.
As for myself, Chase’s post ban abuse had driven me to use other profiles but I’ve now given up
For those who know me, they know I am no fan of Chase and have called him out on his various accounts on multiple occasions as well as his other accounts outside of here where he has engaged writing about this content with minors, but I don't believe that is Chase. I could very well be wrong, but I am pretty sure that is someone else.
I have forgotten their other account names, but they have been on here at least twice before with two other accounts where they made a similar introduction post and then deleted everything within a few days. However, like Chase, they are also into minors. You can tell by the entire last paragraph, the reference to Wyatt's braces in the 4th paragraph, as well as the generous helping of "lad" sprinkled throughout the video. Its almost comical, how if you read it with any kind of scrutiny, you can see them going out of their way to try not to show their "interest" but ends up just making themselves look more obvious.
Does make you wonder though how many people on this site have two and three or even more accounts.
Did a search as the forum keeps a record of deleted posts/threads even though you can't access them. Their prior account was "HubbaWubba". You can see their post, they even talk about the same Youtube video.
05-22-2024, 06:14 PM (This post was last modified: 05-22-2024, 06:19 PM by YinYang.)
There is a simple way to find out, B&D has already confirmed that the IP address of Bestdeaths fan IS Chase.
I can also confirm that Chase is or has used dozens of profiles both before and after his ban
Edit: One of Chase’s ‘invisible’ profiles is on-line as I posted this
(05-22-2024, 06:14 PM)YinYang Wrote: There is a simple way to find out, B&D has already confirmed that the IP address of Bestdeaths fan IS Chase.
I can also confirm that Chase is or has used dozens of profiles both before and after his ban
Edit: One of Chase’s ‘invisible’ profiles is on-line as I posted this
I feel like I'm in an episode of Black Mirror and I'm trapped in some weird reality where everyone is Chase because you are right, the amount of people that "cycle" through here are not that many, and at least half of them are Chase with his alternate accounts.