10-02-2019, 08:05 PM
(10-02-2019, 06:56 PM)dim375 Wrote:(09-30-2019, 11:56 AM)CHASE Wrote: I may have overreacted. I want a more balance in my life and this seemed to be too much a presence in my life. I am a good person, a nice person, a peaceful person and this area of my life, this fetish, often bothers me. The guys on past forums NEVER wanted to discuss this in any great depth and got upset when I did. I’m not entirely sure why I did the deletion either. Someone may have not liked a few of the pics. To me they are just fantasy and not real life at all. I’m a pacifist in real life. I don’t entirely want this fetish and so engaging in it by posting and writing stories so much as I was doing seemed to be ruining my time and my life really. I’m not sure about all of it but I wish I didn’t have this fetish. Do you understand any of that? If you do, explain it to me, please. Thanks for asking, too. I did this quite some time ago, too and almost no one noticed or at least didn't comment. What I really need is a person who really understands me and this fetish or wants to discuss it in some way. I also think I was spending too much time here.I think that it would be more fruitful to find a partner (perhaps a boyfriend) and replace (at least partly) this fetich with a constructive mutual relationship. Then the fetich may fade, or at least you may seek it less often. Notwithstanding, I am not an analyst to speak about it further. Take care, dude!
Easier said than done. There's a lot of jerks out there.