10-03-2019, 04:08 PM
(10-03-2019, 10:39 AM)CHASE Wrote: I've tried almost all of the things you mentioned. Guys lie. Guys don't show up. The guys I'm not attracted to are attracted to me and those I'm attracted to are not attracted to me. As for the gym, it didn't decrease the fetish. After years of working out, I've now hurt my knee from running and my shoulder and arm from the weight machine. I've met people at the gym, none of them gay or at least not openly gay. Increasing libido doesn't help the fetish go away. I appreciate your post to help me and know it is genuine but I don't know what else to do.Have you surely tried visiting internet dating clubs? Have you surely popped in for a drink in a gay club? How to find a gay in the gym when only 5 percent of the population is openly gay? In many countries, there are (a few) gyms for gays. Also, without a mate, the gym will increase your libido towards your fetich! Form your saying, I guess you live in the US where homophobia is still an issue. If you don't attract guys, then perhaps you need something to change in your demeanor or the gay type you prefer. The sheer solution is counseling (choose analysis rather than CBT), as I notice your excuses as an unwillingness to change things. Good luck, dude! Be positive!