10-04-2019, 06:29 PM
Gays comprise not 10 percent of the population, but about 5 percent. There is no exact number for this, as many controversial studies give various percentages, with 5 percent an average of most. Notwithstanding, openly gays are fewer. No, I do not include cheaters! These despicable beings, after secretly hooking-up a gay they return to their families and consider themselves straight when, in fact, are bisexual! When I say ''analysis,'' I mean ''psychoanalysis.'' But this is dated as it has been replaced by ''psychodynamic therapy.'' Have you tried this? Regarding ''CBT,'' you may ''google'' it to see what it is. CBT is briefer and cheaper than analysis. I agree that homophobia is still an issue as a few countries have no homophobia, such as (I guess) the Netherlands, Denmark, etc. However, with the migration crisis in Europe, people of different countries are less keen to socialize with LGBT people (here I used my political correctness). I guess you live in the southern US. Dude, you may ''google'' for places where gays hang out, such as pubs, cafes, diners (as you call them in the states), bars, etc. You may also find events where gays participate in, including leisure activities. There are heaps of online gay clubs, some chargeable others not. You may search for dudes with shared interests and then meet them in a public place such as McDonald's. If you think you both found your soulmate, then you may move further! Have a nice weekend. You may find it as an occasion to implement the above suggestions! Good luck!