Disappointing attitude from a local BDSM/fetish site.

[Male Navel]

There is nothing wrong with this fetish and no-one here should feel guilty about having it. It's not even 'bizarre' as far as fetishes go, violence and sex have always been intertwined and if you talk to pretty much any psychologist/therapist, I guarantee that they will tell you 'erotic murder fantasies' aren't this otherwordly, ghastly unspeakable thing, and that they are surprisingly common.

If any users here are invested in self-loathing because of their own kinks, I would advise not trying to push that mentality off on other people who are perfectly comfortable with their own sexuality.

@Male Navel I'm sorry you had to deal with shitty mods at the other site, but thankfully there are other places such as this forum that are generally more reasonable!

I was hoping to add a little insight, but saw that Ashe took care of that. Well said.

I'm sorry you experienced that, Navel, and it seems odd to have your topic deleted when you said there'd already been chat on the subject. Perhaps it was an admin who simply didn't enjoy your tastes and was a jerk about it? Was it a predominantly heterosexual site? I've encountered the acceptable hypocrisy of "straight" people (and w/w) doing even worse things to each other many times. 

It can be difficult enough trying to navigate this fetish/fantasy in our own minds, let alone when trying to connect with others.

Yeah it was a predominantly straight site, so maybe that had sth to do with it. Althought they had gay people on there too. I think it was more the fetish itself.